I have had ample time to reflect recently, I have been relocated to Texas - 9 hours away from the things that make me tick - family and home. More on that later! I am with nearly 200 colleges from across the US (born world wide). I haven't been around this many adults (strangers) at one time since college - its an overdose - and interesting.
When visiting with my new friends, I have realized we are all more alike than different - seeking personal goals and empowerment (whats on the inside). My unpopular views on life choices (whats on the outside) - race, religion and gay marriage - I will leave out of this blog. Because, simply- I think if you find love - I am happy for you and I don't have the power to judge you - only to accept you. Period.
Back, to what makes me tick....I have been pondering this a lot recently after I saw a fantastic article in Oprah Magazine. It is a great, full-of-good-stuff magazine - the only one that is on my priority list!
The article is about the PATH of LIFE.
Basically, the author has a vision for her life and career - 10 career changes later, one thing leads to another and by surprise she found her niche. The travel may be bumpy, but arriving to the destination is where the joy is. The big issue is timing. I know that every high school student (me included) - has a vision, a plan, a dream. Typically - graduate, college, career, marriage, kids, white picket fence, blah..blah blah.
I write this blog to provide validation to those who arrived late to their destination (I'm rarely on time!), those who haven't found it and those who criticize the path of uncertainty that someone may be on. Shame on you!
My journey had numerous career "starts" - Real Estate, Cosmetology School, College - just to name a few. The good news- I can tell you a lot about Real Estate - I still hold my license! I can cut my kids hair - comes in hand!. Then, transitioned into Corporate America and lived in a cube for many years with some fantastic (and not so fantastic) companies. And, in between, I got to stay at home with my kids when they were infants.
It worked! I provided for my family and I got to explore people, creativity and career. A few years ago, I decided to return to school - change majors - it was fantastic! Last year, on a whim - I applied for a job (that I had applied numerous times before) - and I got it! Total Transformation, Total Change and Total Detour!
I remember praying for guidance and direction and praying for the best for me and my kids.
Moving forward 1 year - I am in Basic Training at a Government Academy in a challenging and new career! I love it! I was scared coming here, mid life, 2 kids - baggage! What would they think? Would I fit in? What if i don't wear the right thing? Say the right thing? I forgot how to be corporate! Help!
Then, Day 1 - I realize, I have a lot to bring to the table. I have worked for some great companies, I have a great skill set! And, guess what - I am NOT OLD! Actually, most of my class is 30s to 50s - and they too have JUST NOW landed into a career field that they were ready for.
Things have came full circle, at the right time...And, That is OK!
My favorite quote - "I have no regrets, at one time, it was exactly what I wanted"
This is so powerful, reassuring and TRUE! There are at least two time zones where you can choose to make regrets powerful energy healing rather than destructive: the past and the future. Both can be transformed by what you decide to do right now, in this moment.
Let's start by changing the past. If you think that can't be done, think again. Literally. The past doesn't exist except as a memory, a mental story, and though past events aren't changeable, your stories about them are.
Read more: http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Stop-Regretting-Decisions-Martha-Becks-Plan-to-Let-Go#ixzz2XcMOO7M9
My kids know, I will provide unconditional support until they find what makes them happy - and, they don't need to decide at 18!
Search for what makes you tick, smile and excel! Find a career that fits your mold and keep looking for the next great thing. Today, I am embarking on a exciting career, I still get to work for Family Partnership and assist families with special needs and I never had to let go of my writing - just got a article published!
I have found the things that make me light up, I have created my path, been grateful for the journey and arrived at my destination!
Cheers!
Stacey
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